“I know you feel awful. But your life’s changing. That’s not a bad thing.” You ask “When is this grieving phase going to pass?” There is no such date circled on calendar. “You get to do the work. Meditate and pray, get your butt down to the Geet every morning and something will change.” Trust me, “It won’t last forever. Nothing does.”
它的确是一封情书，果真是来自中国、写于七夕---中国情人节的一封催人泪下的情书。翻译后的中国情书是这样的：Da Hai: Ocean, I hope no-one will get this bottle, as we just wish you can hear our voice, and get your blessing.Today is the Chinese Valentine’s Day, we pray that our relationship will last forever and we will have a long happy life together.We declare our love and that we are the only one in each other’s life. Though the person who picks up this bottle, in a different country using a different name, it’s one world.So please make a voice about our relationship and tell everyone about it. Today can you please be our witness that our love will last forever, two people, two hearts but one life. Zhang Qing Xun & Li 2012, 07,07.苏格兰母亲尼古拉说，这一定是一对热恋中的情人，因为什么原因在中国的情人节日里不能在一起，所以他们要用如此古老的浪漫方式发送他们对爱的傾诉......我要告诉他们，你们的爱会天长地久，会的......
For a long time, “You have all these insane anxieties about everything in your life and you’ve lost you balance.” You carried your anxieties and fears around with you but you were too weak and afraid to face them.
Losing your loved one has created a wound in your heart that feels like will never heal, the wound is so deep and painful but “It feels like a precious wound… like a heartbreak you won’t let go of, because it hurts too good…we all want things to stay the same, settle for living in misery because we’re afraid of change, of things crumbling to ruins. Then I looked around in this place, at the chaos it’s endured, the ways it’s been adapted, burned, pillaged then found a way to build itself back up again, and I was reassured – maybe my life hasn’t been so chaotic. It’s just the world that is and the only real trap is getting attached to any of it. Ruin is a gift. Ruin is the road to transformation…We must always be prepared for endless waves of transformation. Both of us deserve better than staying together…because we’re afraid we’ll be destroyed if we don’t.”
49.I want to hold your hand on Valentine‘s Day. Happy Valentine‘s Day, sweetie.
“If you’re brave enough to leave behind everything familiar and comforting, which can be anything from your house to bitter, old resentments, and set out a truth-seeking journey either externally or internally, and if you are truly willing to regard everything that happens to you on that journey as a clue and if you accept everyone you meet along the way as a teacher, and if you are prepared, most of all, to face and forgive some very difficult realities about yourself, and the truth will not be withheld from you. "
36.I knew that there would be ups And downs when I married you. But through it all you h***e always been my Valentine.
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“Yep, you arranged it all. Nobody forced you into anything. You can’t forgive yourself and you are waiting for him to forgive you.” But “waiting for him to forgive you is a damn waste of time. Forgive yourself.” I know “it’s not that easy.” “Here is the deal. You are going to pray until you forgive yourself. Everything else will take care of itself.”
“We haven’t have any communication in a while and it’s given me time I needed to think.”
26.You have been And still are my only true Valentine.
“You have to learn to select your thoughts the same way you select your clothes every day. That’s a power you can cultivate. You want to control your life so bad, then work on the mind. That’s the only thing you should control. Because if you can’t master your thoughts, you’re in trouble. Why don’t you just let it be?”
7.Love triumphs over everthing. Love has no age, no limit and no death.
You were too scared to face your fear. “You thought you were over him, but you love him. So love him! You really miss him. So miss him! Sending him some light and love every time you think of him and then drop it. You know, if you could clear out all that spaces in your mind that you’re using to obsess over this guy and your failed relationship, you’d have a vacuum with a doorway. And you know what universe will do with that doorway? Rush in, God rush in, fill you with more love than you ever dreamed of. I think you will have the capacity someday to love the whole world.
57.Be genuine and conceal noting.I write every wiod I wand to say on this small card.I wish my honey a happy Valentine‘s day.
浪漫的故事就是那么令人纒綿，41 岁的母亲尼古拉 · 麦克法兰，帯着她四岁的女儿露西散步在爱丁堡附近的波托贝洛 Socttish 海滩时，突然从被冲刷上岸的海沙中发现一只破旧玻璃瓶，瓶身偶尔露出写有东方字码的 Mandarin 书信。母亲惊喜得全身发顫，莫不是从 5000 英里之外的中国跨海漂来的......“我兴奋地带它回家，仔细地用镊子拿出了瓶子里的纸张。我知道这是中国人写的，但我无法读懂中文”，尼古拉说。她马上转向互联网，邀请她远在澳大利亚的朋友，朱莉 · 古尔德的女儿，她在悉尼的中文学校上学。几个小时后，朱莉的消息返回来了，它的确是一封情书，果真是来自中国、写于七夕---中国情人节的一封催人泪下的情书。翻译后的中国情书是这样的： “ Today is the Chinese Valentine’s Day, we pray that our relationship will last forever and we will have a long happy life together...... ”唉！你我看得懂中文，何不直接阅读中文原信！
You saw his message but you didn’t respond, “because if I didn’t respond, we are still having a conversation, I was still in it.” And you don’t know what to say to him, you have an ocean of words to tell him, but really, deep in heart, you just want to say “Sorry”, you want him to forgive you.
20.You were my high school sweetheart, And still are.
Also “be careful what you pray for, Emily, because you just might get it.” and don’t forget to take action on your will “There is a wonderful old Italian joke about a poor man who goes to church every day and prays before the statue of the great saint begging “Dear saint, please, please, please let me win the lottery.” Finally, the exasperated statue comes to life and looks down to the begging man and said 'My son, please, please, please buy a ticket.' So now I get the joke and I’ve got three ticket.”
你一直很喜欢的一部电影名叫《Eat, Pray and Love》。回头再看一遍这部电影， 你发现一切发生在你身上的事情看似意料之外，却又好像有迹可循。七年前，你在看这部电影时心理产生的不安与感动，你那微不足道的小意识也许早早就在你的人生故事里埋下了伏笔，冥冥之中你被你自己牵引着走上了一条你必须走的路。今天你再看这部电影时，你仿佛在看自己，你好像终于可以理解自己的选择，你终于可以心平气和地跟自己对话了。
17.I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.
“Hey Emily, believe in love again.” “Sometime losing balance for love is part of living balanced life.” Don’t be afraid any more.
47.Oh, How much I miss you! If the passionate refreshing breeze knows my heart, it can tell you that I miss you and care you for my life‘s time. If graceful white cloud knows my heart, it can tell you I love you and would be together with you forever.
8.To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.
52.Sending you a kiss to say I‘m glad that you are mine. Happy the day!
19.After 25 years, our love is even stronger than before.
11.Never stop smiling, not even when you‘re sad, some man fall in love with your smile.
53.You mean everything to me. Please say yes.Happy Valentine‘s Day, Honey!
55.You stepped out of my dreams andsintosmy arms. I can‘t let you go. Happy Valentine‘s Day.
18.This card is to let you know that I still love you after all of these years.
31.No one has ever loved me the way you do. I love being your little Valentine.
4.There will always be people who‘ll hurt you, so you need to continue trusting, just be careful.
43.Listening to my heart beating. Seeing how much I love you ,I dare to admit how much I love you .When thinking of you, I hope you can receive the passionat words I left for you!
3.Don‘t cry because it is over, smile because it happened.
45.I miss you not because of my loneliness but I do feel lonely when I miss you. Only when I miss you deeply I feel so lonely.
54.May this Valentine bless us with the cupid of love and warmth of romance. Happy Valentine‘s Day Honey!
24.I didn‘t think that I could ever trust happiness. then I met you. Happy Valenti ne‘s Day, Dear.
10.Love and a cough cannot be hid.
14.True love‘s the gift which God has given to man alone beneath the heaven.
35.To my ever loving; I am yours forever.
32.On this Valentine‘s Day, just like every day, all I h***e is love for you.
27.To the girl of my dreams And the mother of our child: you are the only Valentine for me.
21.To my one and only Valentine: I love you.
12.The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can‘t have them.
50.May all of our wishes come true this Valentine‘s Day.
38.It is graceful grief and sweet sadness to think of you, but in my heart, there is a kind of soft warmth that can‘t be expressed with any choice of words.
15.No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won‘t make you cry.
48.As always ,I hope the sweetheart festival to be joyful!
51.Our love grows stronger with every passing year. Happy Valentine‘s Day, sweetie.
9.Love is not only a sentiment but also an art.
1.Every man is a poet when he is in love.
情人节英文祝福语 生活小帮手 品味生活。
46.miss you so deeply that my love just like a kite has broken its line and won‘t stop flying until it reaches you at last.
22.You h***e always been there for me, And I will always be there for you. Happy Valentine‘s Day.
44.Thousand of time I have thought of you .My heart is going high into the air and flying with my blessing towards you I don‘t care loneliness. I am satisfied when you are happy and I am happy when I think of you!
37.I‘m sorry that I can‘t be with you on this Valentine‘s Day. I send this Valen tine‘s card to remind you that I love you.
16.ust because someone doesn‘t love you the way you want them to, doesn‘t mean they don‘t love you with all they have.
33.We h***e had our difficulties recently, but you are still the one I call my Valentine.
28.I will be your Valentine until the end of time.
42.Do you know there is someone thinking of you and caring you all the time ? Your smiling eyes are just like the sparkling stars hanging on the curtain of my heart.
34.Please come back. I want to make up. I want to be your Valentine.
41.Those days when we were together appear in my mind time after time, because they were so joyful, happy, blest, disappointing, sad and painful. I miss you ,and miss you so mach……
30.I made the right choice when I decided to marry you. Be my Valentine forever.
25.Our love grows stronger with every passing year. Happy Valentine‘s Day, Baby.
13.To love and to be loved is the greatest happiness of existence.
23.I fell in love with you when I first saw you, And I still am after 40 years.
29.After all these years I still feel like a schoolboy when I hold your hand. I‘m thinking of you this Valentine‘s Day.
6.Love is ever matter of comedies, and how and then of tragedies.
56.I didn‘t think that I could ever trust happiness. Then I met you.Happy Valenti ne‘s Day, Dear.
5.Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.
40.I know you like this song most and I know what you are thinking about ,too, I miss you .
39.Do you understand the feeling of missing someone? It is just like that you will spend a long hard time to turn the ice-cold water you have drunk into tears.
2.Love is a chord in life, not a solo.